Okays, i know i'm slow but yeaps, i'm just about to start watch 《下一站 幸福》. Started the first episode at the wrong timing.. I watched it when i'm supposed to prepare to head to work. Too engrossed into it as it was seriously very nice.. It caused me not to have enough time to prepare and i'm late for work. Decided to cab to Hougang Mall but i didn't expect the cab fare to be so expensive during the peak hours.. Nearly can say that it's an hour of my pay! Gah~ A lesson learnt.. I shouldn't watch such nice drama at the wrong time.

Work was quite okays today.. Being the runner and later changed to be at the fitting room position. Rack up and i realised that how should i do it to complete my rack up faster.. Got to try to apply it when i'm doing the closing shift the next time.

Labels: Tuesday

Met HuiXin girlf for lunch at Hougang pastamania. Had baked rice and garlic bread (Y) Made use of the time and chatted about our stuffs! Hehehs.. That's what i love the most.. Knowing more about her even though we aren't spending much time together. It narrow down the gap between us(:

Lunched and accompanied girlf to TheBodyShop then she went into CottonOn with me. Saw her cousin's friend, Michelle. Now, Michelle knows that we are some sort of related.. Hahas.

After working until 6pm, i headed over to PlazaSing's Cotton On Body to work for the closing shift as the shop had a lack of staffs. Saw Junkia there but i couldn't recognise him for that moment.. I'm so sorry! *guilty* Saw Jamie as well when the shop was almost closing.

Labels: Monday

Worked the closing shift again.. It isn't that tired compared to yesterday, i wonder why. Anyway, i said Yuping today in the shop! She had a different hairstyle.. I didn't recognise her until she tapped me from the back! Aww~ I missed her! It's been long since i last seen her.. At least one year plus, i guess? Seems like i will just keep getting to see many many familiar faces when i'm working there.. It's kind of fun like this, hehehs!

Kind Wendy treated us to SweetTalk's bubble tea today.. Hehehs, thank you! She insisted, i wonder why.. Hahaha! Anyway, thanks alot! (x Doing rack up doing the closing was indeed much more tired.. It has to be much more neater so as to prepare in advance for tomorrow's business. But i'm allowed to leave earlier. Yeahness~ Earlier rest time *yawns straight away*

"You Found Me" by The Fray was being played in my workplace today and it made me goes.. O.o?! I hope you are doing well(:

"When it's time to play, you play. When you are supposed to learn, you learn."

Labels: Sunday

My first closing shift today~ I wonder how different will it be as compared to Clubmarc? Excited!

It's HuiXin's first day of work today and she told me that she's going to be late. I replied her that she must try to change like me.. I wasn't late once since the start of this job. But.. After saying that to her, i was almost late for today's work! Ugh~ I guess i must never praise myself, if not i will be late again.. Maybe it's telling me not to be so happy about it, i'm just in luck.

Alrighty, i got to know more colleagues today.. Working with three new other people. I'm slowing getting used to some of the things here. Hmms well, at least a tiny winy little bit! I will soon get better.. Right right? I hope so! :D I guess everything are all the same as compared to Clubmarc.. Except for the pace. I hope this will help me to adapt to here faster! :D

Saw some familiar faces today.. Ramzam, Ismah, Abrel and WeiZhen! Cool~ It's been one year and nine months.. Around there. Hope everyone is doing well(:

Labels: Saturday

Hehehs.. I'm wearing my work attire for work today instead :D Reached around 15 minutes earlier or so and started to tidy up a little. It's a little busy today because there isn't much people working in the morning shift. Another two people joined us at around 1pm plus. Supposed to work until 2pm but i overworked until 2.30pm and i didn't realised! Luckily my working hours extended until 4pm.

Work is better today as compared to Saturday.. Adapt and more adapt, i have to :D It's the first time I'm working with Shah today.. Cool~ The feeling is quite fun. Unfortunately, it is also the last day.. Aww~ ): All the best to you when you head out of Cotton On for other jobs ^^

Lunched at Long John Silver and rested there a little as well.. Headed home aftermath(:

Labels: Tuesday

This is cool! Watch this with Robin today(: Met him at PlazaSingapura and i was late. Oops.. Shouldn't sleep that late yesterday. One thing that i don't really like is the sound effect.. It always scare me because it was so loud! -.-" It's been long since i went to a cinema.. Aww~ i need to give myself more breaks!

Walked around a little and went to Novena. Robin was busy doing some of his work while i shopped for my work attires. It took my three hours to shop for seven pieces of clothings.. LOL! I still i win already.. I was staring at those clothes for super duper long before i start trying them. Robin cannot stand me~ xD

Finally after those trying and payment, we went from our dinner. Sort of send him back to his workplace while i look around again before i headed home(:

Labels: Monday

Woke up early at nearly 8am to prepare to go for the store meeting today. An hour of meeting later and I headed over to my grandparents' home. Aww~ It's been long since i'm last here.. Busy busy period previously. Aunt gave me a book and i finished it today. Omg omg~ I'm such a good girl! (Y) Actually.. It's a comic book -.-" Hahaha! But but.. It's not those romance or fighting manga, it's more about christianity. Quite a nice book~ (Y) Aunt said that she will help me to subscribe it.. Hehehs, hopefully i will be getting more of these books! (: Thank you Aunt! :D

After that I went to Paya Lebar to meet my lovely girlfs! :D Met Cecilia at the mrt station and head to Yundi's home together. We took the bus and overshot by two stops~ Oops! Sorry Cecilia, I wasn't attentive): Finally got to Yundi's home and had steamboat.. Yums yums~ :P Slacked, chatted, photo taking session done and we went to parkway. Thank you lovelies for helping me to choose :D

Thought a lot today.. I got to toughen myself up since i decided on the life i wanted to have now. I chose it so i should try my very best to make everything goes well for me instead of giving anything up or not being very detailed in any small tiny winy part to make my life better. I got to be tough and get them all done beautifully :) Jia yous to myself~~

Labels: Outing, Sunday

My first day of work! Well, it's supposed to start next Tuesday but i came today because they need people. Omg~ It's so different from ClubMarc.. The amount of clothes, the crowd, the way the serve. It's different! I got to adapt, adapt, adapt all over again. Their fitting rooms are different~ I prefer working as a runner, front zone or middle zone.. I think i'm better at those than fitting room.

The crowd at the fitting room is big during peak hours which will create a queue.. It makes it hard for me to work especially with those clothes left over there that the customers don't want. Phew~ But i managed to pull through.. Hopefully it will get better as time pass :D

Labels: Saturday

http://lifestyle.xin.msn.com/en/sex-relationships/article.aspx?cp-documentid=4330281&page=9
Hmms.. It's kind of true, part of it.

Hmms.. Time seems to be passing very slowly to reach next week. I'm waiting for the day to work. I'm sort of rotting at home now. Ugh~ i wonder what are the stuffs i can do to spend my time away usefully :)

Labels: Thursday

Weeeeeeeehs~ Finally, UT3 are over. I can finally rest :D Haven't been updating since the Data Communication UT. Well, so after that was IT Security UT, followed up four days break before JAVA UT and lastly FA UT. Of all UTs, FA UT was the hardest.. Without doubt. There's so much of questions that i do not know how to do.. But since it's over, i shall just get over it and wait for the results :)

Slept at nearly 5am due to the FA UT and i woke up at around 6 plus or 7am to prepare to head to school for the UT. Took 169 to school.. This is the first time i took bus to school during UT3 because the queue isn't that long and i managed to get into the first bus! Hmms.. Maybe because it is 10am plus so the crowd is different compared to having UT at 2pm.

After that killer UT, i headed to AMK by Bus 169 so that i can have a long nap during the ride.. Hehehs. Rewarded myself with 2 boxes of takoyaki balls bought at AMK :P Headed home and enjoyed them. Took a 4 to 5 hours nap in the afternoon (x

Apart from the killer UT, today is a nice day. I can really feel myself relaxing over the end of the UT period.. It's simply nice :D

Labels: Tuesday

Stress and frustration

Lots of things make us tired and irritated and we take it out on our partner because we don’t know how to vent it, even though they haven’t made us feel this way. Get rid of stress and frustrations by screaming in the car, buy a punching bag or use a pillow, or go to the gym after work.

Underlying issues

One of the main reasons for couple arguing is that there are underlying issues that linger which haven’t been resolved. Therefore you both need to realise the problem of not solving these hidden and obvious problems. If they aren’t resolved they will keep rearing their ugly head.

The problem of compromise

There are times when compromise is good, but it shouldn’t be the way to resolve all your domestic disputes. The reason for this is that many people often feel that they are owed something later on or that they have given something up as a part of the bargain. You need to resolve and find solutions.

They aren’t the enemy

You have to remember that you love this person and sometimes when we spend a lot of time with someone it can be easy to get stuck in a rut and allow feelings of resentment ruin our mood. Therefore you have to remember that they are not the enemy and it isn’t a case of winning or losing.

There needs to be change

You both need to take in that trying harder won’t make a lot of difference and so you need to work towards change. You will both want and need to change your behaviour and thinking and focus on resolving things. You also need to assess whether it is your behaviour that needs focus and change.

Re-evaluate expectations

When expectations of someone are too high it is easy to feel let down when they aren’t met. Couples should remember that their partner is human meaning mistakes will happen, and either one of you will feel let down. Having unrealistic expectations will only end in conflict and dissatisfaction.

Follow promises through

Cut down on arguments by following through on promises you make. When one of you makes a promise and it’s not kept, the other is likely to be hurt. If your partner fails to keep their promises, make sure you do. You will find that your calm manner will help them to take on your approach.

Don’t take things to heart

Try not to take things that are said in the heat of the moment as things are taken the wrong way and this always leads to a breakdown in communication. If someone is overly critical then they’re either over generalising or don’t know how to articulate themselves through communication properly.

Forget the past

When a couple argue it is always easy to bring up the past and the nitty gritty details of past arguments and troubles. However, if you avoid this and only mention things within the last week, you will both realise that there isn’t that much and it stops things for getting out of control.

Listen and hear

If you argue its key that you both listen and hear to what is said, as this is vital in keeping strong communication which is crucial in a relationship. You can recall what they’ve said so they feel you’ve listened, heard and understood. You aren’t agreeing to what they say, but it helps to calm things.

Stop the blame game

Don’t blame your partner or yourself because this only masks the truth. When you try to make someone feel guilty and blame them you are covering up what is really going on. Pointing the finger will also keep the argument going and stokes the fire rather than stop it, which should be your goal.

The consequences

Realise what the argument is doing to the relationship and to you. It takes a big toll on someone and nobody like the upset and stress of it all. It is much better to be happy than to be right and it will definitely have a positive effect on your relationship.

Sources from:
http://lifestyle.xin.msn.com/en/sex-relationships/article.aspx?cp-documentid=4310987

Cool~ Hope this helps all the couples to stay lovely :D

Labels: Information

Data Communication paper ended today. Not a killer paper, but i shall not take it lightly as well.. Due to the moderation. But i'm glad.. At least my revision isn't a waste(:

Met up with TzeYong when i reached school because i don't want to stay alone for another half an hour or so. He's with two sociable babes, Rachel and Jas (Sorry, i only know you by that name).. It will be quite enjoyable while hanging out with them, i bet! :D Stayed with them until i head for the UT.

UT ended very fast and i went to find Sally for awhile before heading to the taxi stand to find Jas, Rachel and TzeYong. Oh my~ I didn't know that so many related topics will pop out after i said something. Friendly and sociable friends TzeYong got~ :D But poor Ms. Friendly, she met Ms. Chor Lor): Closed the taxi's door with too much strength and i kind of scare her.. I'm sorry): I will learn to be Ms. Gentle.. Hahas! Parted with them and headed to wait for my bus.. And i actually saw Daryl! It's been really long since we last met.

It's just 4 hours i spent outside for UT and i'm feeling tired. Two more days before i can take a small break~ Jia yous!

Labels: Monday

Ugh~ 14 hours and 15 mins more and it will be the start of the first UT3! After so much revision, i'm tired, nothing seems to be able to go into my mind now.. Therefore i'm taking a break, blogging at the same time.

7 days gone, another 20 problems down.. I can't believe that's what i have done for that seven days. Too much or too little, it's another matter.. But it really proves to me that if i want to do it, i can! Some ways, somehow, at least a small part of it. I shall not give myself anymore excuses, i shall not aim for something but not put any effort into it. There will be many more other things that i got to worry about at the later part of my life, so i can't stay being lazy like what i'm doing now.

Anyway, all the best to everyone who are talking exams during this period! :D

Labels: Sunday

"We lead different lives. we have our own things to fight for." These sentences came out from one of my friends' mouth and they set me thinking.. What are the things that i really want to achieve? What can i do so that i will be able to achieve what i want?

Sometimes we thought we are just dreaming for beautiful things.. Maybe it's those dreaming that let us understand what we really want. From there, we start to fight for the things that we want to achieve.

Right now, i'm still not very sure of all the things that i want. But at least for now, i know i have to fight for my grades. Back to reality, back to mugging~

Labels: Saturday

To school for? "Revision". Yeah~ I actually did nothing):

Met Leon in school and i'm supposed to explain to him.. But it's so hard to explain, and i'm not in the mood for revision. Ended up playing one game and slowly trying to absorb those notes. None of us is doing revision, we ended up chatting until our stomach complained. Out of the school and we headed to Woodlands Pastamania! Woots~ baked rice (Y) Hehehs.. Leon introduced mushroom baked rice and yupps, it's yummy-licious as well :P

Homed and napped for 3 hours :O Thanks to the nap.. I can do my revision now if not i will feel guilty that i did nothing today. Sorry Leon, couldn't help much to your revision):

"Success Usually Kisses You In Private BUT Failure Always Slaps You In Public "
Saw this from one of my friends' facebook wall.. How true. Ugh~ ):

❒ Slack
❒ Work Hard
✔ Chiong
❒ Give it your best

Four more days and here comes UT3~ Too late to work hard, that should be 2 weeks ago. Too early to give it my best, that's for UT3 period.. If i were to drain myself out during revision, how am i supposed to do my UT3 after that? I can only do as much as i can now *work hard expression*